First I think you should try and figure out why he pushed you away. Then from there you can make the choice to give him another chance to have you in his life or decide that you’re better off without him. 

But he is talking to you again which is for the most part a good sign. He probably missed you or maybe you’re the only one he can turn to. I hope it’s the first one! I say let yourself befriend him, life’s too short to dwell on any minor tension. 

I think a relationship’s value shouldn’t be heavily based on how long you two have been together. Obviously, quality over quantity. If you really loved him, not trying to make it work would be out of the question. Since it’s not confirmed that he’s moving you shouldn’t worry too much, instead spend more time with him and just be happy while he’s around. 

If I were you, of course I would try to make it work. But only time will tell, and sometimes life happens. That’s okay too. But I’d rather try and fail then just not even bother. Even if it didn’t work out and we didn’t end up together, I wouldn’t be too upset because if I really loved someone enough, I would never see it as a waste of time. Long distance relationships are tough and I wish you two the best. <3

That’s cute (: First off, how do you know she doesn’t feel the same way about you? If you’re not certain that you’re friend zoned, don’t be discouraged just yet. You should ask her to winter formal in a way that shows you’re really into her. Put a lot of thought into how you ask her and I don’t think she’ll see it as a friendly gesture. Make it clear in a subtle way, not too obvious, that you really like her and you’ll find out if she feels the same way. Good luck! And tell me how it goes if you remember (: 

Different situation, different solution I feel. You really need to know the person to figure out how to best help them. Do they want you to just listen or offer up some words of wisdom? Sometimes all you really need when you’re down is for someone to be there for you to listen and nod at all the right times, not turn around and make it all about themselves by bringing in their own personal experiences. Other times however, that’s just what they need. They want someone to tell them how, to help them cope or get through whatever it is. 

When I’m unsure, I just give the person a hug and ask them if they need anything. If they say no, just let them be and reassure them that you’re going to be there if they change their mind and go about your way. Sometimes that’s all you can do, but you can never go wrong by being supportive and showing that you truly care.